Cocktail Opens Up About Her Side of the Ray J Break-Up!

Last week we announced to you that For the Love of Ray J 2 had begun casting, meaning Ray J and his winner, Cocktail had broken up. Cocktail has stayed hush about the whole subject, but she finally took to her MySpace blog to clear the rumors, and say what really happened. She writes:

"So most of you have seen photos floating around with me and a guy, who is obviously not Ray. Some of you have been asking questions about who I am dating, is it Ray? Or this person or that person and I want to clear some things up.

When I was on the show, I truly fell for Ray. I invested my time, effort, and emotions into him and wanted things to work. But the reality of reality television is that it doesn’t always work. Ray and I are no longer together. We have not been together for awhile now but we have remained friends and when we hang out we have a great time. I miss him very much and respect what decisions he has made. He is a really cool person and someone I feel connected with for sure but aside from that, I can’t say.

As for the tour we just did and ‘acting’ like we were together, it comes with the show. What people saw of us on tour was real. When we are together we have a cool chemistry. We have fun and enjoy each others company. But at the end of the day I wasn’t the right person for Ray and although it hurt me, at least he was honest about the situation before it went any further. I do want to end this on a positive note, I am happy. I am having fun, living life and doing me. I have a lot of projects coming up and you will see a lot more of me for sure."

If you don't already know, Cocktail did sign up for the third season of I Love Money, which begins filming next Saturday. She later went on to blog:

"Just like any other relationship we took it day by day. We would hang out, have fun, laugh, share stories, and watch tv. Over time as we got to know each other more and more he would tell me things and often times they would hurt my feelings. I guess the brutal truth about him not being exclusive with me and still ‘hooking up’ with girls made me realize that it wasn’t going to work. I hate feeling like I failed and let’s be real no woman likes to quit a relationship so I tried to stick it out. I wanted to be his only one not just his number one.

After awhile Ray eventually realized that I was truly genuine and sat me down to tell me that we were not going to work out. Then the season 2 bomb was dropped on me. What makes me mad is that I asked him if there was going to be a season 2 and he lied to my face. He sweet talked me both times I asked. Aside from that, the breaking point was when we went on tour. He didn’t come back to the room at night and I heard the whispers about him being in other rooms with girls. It made me mad because he knew he could be honest with me but he chose not to be. At this point, I emotionally checked out."

It's good to see Cocktail standing for what's right, and I respect her a lot. We all know Ray is a player, and we saw him play some of the girls on the show, like Danger. I think he will continue being the same way on season 2, and only time will tell...

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For the Love of Ray J: Caviar and Danger's Newest Photoshoots!

As most of Vh1's female alumni do after they get kicked off our shows, Caviar and Danger from For the Love of Ray J are doing the same. Caviar posed for DynastySeries.com, and even went nude. Just thought I would mention that it was shot by Frank HotSauce [LMAO]. Danger recently modeled for Black Men Magazine, were she looked beautiful. For the Love of Ray J's Cashmere and Flavor of Love 2's Buckeey also posed for Black Men, but their images are only for the members online. Both Caviar and Danger looked hot int heir photoshoots, and I can't wait to see more of them in the future. Enjoy these pictures!

CLICK HERE FOR CAVIAR'S UNCOVERED PICTURES!

CLICK HERE FOR DANGER' S BIKINI PICTURES!

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Miscellaneous CelebReality Pictures: April 25, 2009

If you guys read my post below about the lack of updates on this blog, then you must definitely understand why this post is a bit of a mash-up. Here a semi-random post full of CelebReality stars pictures, that you would not expect everyday.

The first one is a picture of Danger and Unique from For the Love Ray J goofing around together. They were sworn enemies on the show, and seeing that picture makes me really wonder if that was all for good television. Or maybe, that picture was taken before the girls began feuding. We should find out if these girls are currently talking at the reunion. The next picture is one of Brittaney from Rock of Love Bus / Charm School 3 and Grayvee from Flavor of Love 3 together at a club. They seem like they would be an odd match for friends, but hey, whatever floats their boat. But what makes me wonder is how the hell these girls even met. And finally, the last picture is the first shot of Destiney after announcing her pregnancy. On the Charm School 2 reunion a tipsy Megan told the world, and now we can confirm that is it indeed true. Congrats to her, and we can't wait to see the first pictures of her child!

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POST SHOW INTERVIEWS: Danger & Unique [For the Love of Ray J]

On Monday's shocking season finale of For the Love of Ray J, Ray J ended up getting rid of the dramatic and controversial Danger early off in the episode, and in the end leaving the backstabbing Unique, and picking Cocktail. Both girls had a bunch of hate for each other on the show, and give some very interesting interviews with Vh1! Danger discusses the rumors of her pregnancy and more, while Unique dishes about her rivalries with girls like Cashmere and Danger. Check out short snippets of each interview below!

Danger's Interview

"Ray must have freaked out when the pregnancy story leaked. Did he get in touch?

Yeah, we talked about it right away. He knows how things happen.

What about the interview that quoted you as saying you were a former prostitute. Was that false, as well?

No, that was not false. You can hear me say it online.

Do you regret being an open book?

No, I think that’s why people respond to me. I’m real and honest and people can be the same way with me. I feel like I can connect with people, and I’m glad that’s part of my personality. I think that’s why Ray and I got along so well. It was obvious that I wasn’t there to date him just because he’s famous. I really took the time to get to know him as a person."

READ HER FULL INTERVIEW HERE!

Unique's Interview

"Have you patched things up with Cashmere?

Hell no. She’s the person I have the biggest beef with.

Cashmere? Why?

She tried to throw me under the bus at the reunion. I didn’t even want to go to that. I had to be convinced.

Why didn’t you want to go?

I was aggravated to have been made into this crazy character, this villain. Like, “Muah-ha-ha-ha-ha!” I mean, I got a crazy laugh, but damn."

READ HER FULL INTERVIEW HERE!

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For the Love of Ray J: Cocktail Has Won Ray J's Heart!

14 girls, a bunch a drama and a new hit series later, For the Love of Ray J ended its first season Monday night when Ray J chose Cocktail over Unique in a beautiful ceremony in Las Vegas! In the beginning, I didn't have much hope of Cocktail staying for a while, but I guess I was wrong. I was honestly expecting him to pick Danger, but as long as they are happy, that is all that matters. Congrats to the new couple, and let's see if they will stick together! Also, be sure to catch the show's reunion special next Monday night!

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POST SHOW INTERVIEWS: Feisty [For the Love of Ray J]

& Beverly [Rock of Love Bus]

For the Love of Ray J's Feisty and Rock of Love Bus' Beverly are the 2 latest cast-offs from Vh1. Feisty, better known as the show's party girl was eliminated after being backstabbed by Unique and because of her overall craziness. Beverly was axed because she was simply "in love with being in love with a rockstar". Both girls have decent interviews, and Feisty even hints at doing something like I Love Money. Check out the snippets below!

Feisty's Interview

"You lived up to your name when you had to box Lil’ Hood. Are you a fighter?

No. I’ve never gotten in a physical fight in my life! I like to talk things out. Normally, I just get along with everybody.

Since that’s the case, it’s kind of surprising that you made it to the show in the first place, let alone stayed around so long.

I know. I feel like I made it as far as possible considering that I was homesick. When I looked at the four girls I was left with, I was like, “Fuck. Now I’m gonna be bored.” All the fun girls had gone. Basically, going into the show, I figured that since I was going to be spending so much time with these girls, I’d better get along with them. I didn’t see them as competition, I felt like they were more like roommates.

Was there anyone you didn’t like?

The only person I clashed with was Cocktail, since she was a bitch and would talk shit. But I just stayed away from her. I said what I had to say, that she was shady, and I got away. I stayed away from Danger. I thought she was crazy when I met her and then she became even more crazy. That’s why I stayed around Unique: she was the most normal one."

READ HER FULL INTERVIEW HERE!

Beverly's Interview

"When you saw [Taya] in Atlanta [working as a stripper], was that just for laughs?

Oh yeah. Really, I wanted to go and throw stuff at her and make her fall on her face. My friends and I went there. She had her little VIP section where she was signing stuff and she was sitting there all by herself and gave me a big hug, of course, because that’s how Taya is. I’m looking at her like, “OK, do you not remember how we don’t like each other?” But whatever, she was nice to me and I was nice to her and she asked us to sit up in her section. It was pretty sad, because she was celebrating her 30th birthday there and me and my friends were the only people up there with her. I ended up telling her, “I came in here wanting to throw something at you to make you fall on your face,” and she looked at me, like, “What?” I said, “You’re being nice now, but I don’t like you. I don’t like the way you are. I don’t like the way you never shut up.” She didn’t know how to take it. She just kinda sat there. I’m like, “Sorry. Thanks for the free drinks, though!” She just has no idea. She has no idea why people wouldn’t like her, why she rubs people the wrong way. She’s completely blind. It’s just like when she got upset that we didn’t cheer for her when she won the songwriting challenge. It’s like, why do you care if any of us are friends with you? We’re here fighting for a guy. None of us are supposed to be friends. If you think somebody’s your friend on the show, you’re wrong. They’re just using you because you’re an idiot.

You don’t go on reality TV to make friends! What about the notion that you fell in love with Bret Michaels the rock star instead of Bret the person.

Well, I didn’t fall in love with Bret the person. I don’t know how you could in that amount of time. But the fact that he’s a rock star doesn’t hurt. Isn’t that why everybody’s there? Who would go out with Bret the trash man? He has great eyes, but come on, you gotta draw the line somewhere.

Are your kids fans of his?

My older two knew some of his songs, but they’re obviously younger so they didn’t grow up with Poison or whatever. But when I knew I was going on the show, I’d play some of his songs to them. My oldest, my son, told me he’d seen him on Cribs, so it really sucks that I didn’t end up getting something signed for him. I’m going to have to bring something to the reunion and rub it in Taya’s face."

READ HER FULL INTERVIEW HERE!

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Ray J's New Music Video For "Sexy Ladies"

R&B singer Ray J recently premiered his own dating show For the Love of Ray J on Vh1 where 20 single women are looking to be the next Mrs. Norwood. Along with the television series he is releasing a soundtrack which features original songs from the show. The first single "Sexy Ladies" is a nice, mid-beat r&b / soul song. The video features girls from the show, like Danger and Caviar, most noticeably. The song won't do well IMO, but we can always hope! Enjoy the music video!

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POST SHOW INTERVIEWS: T-Weed [I Love Money 2]
& Lil' Hood [For the Love of Ray J]

Throughout these past 2 weeks, a total of 6 people have been eliminated off of both I Love Money 2 and For the Love of Ray J, which air back-to-back on Mondays. Here are 2 post show interviews by 2 of those CelebReality stars, T-Weed and Lil' Hood. On I Love Money 2, T-Weed was eliminated by The Entertainer for getting into a wrong alliance with Buddha and Lil' Hood was axed from For the Love of Ray J for calling out Ray, and ultimately leaving on her own. Check out snippets of both their interesting interviews below!

T-Weed's Interview

"When you reflect on your undoing, who do blame? Buddha?

I wouldn’t say that I had an undoing. My focus was on our team. The undoing came when most people tried to disband what the operation was. You had people throwing challenges. That means that they had issues. Those are undoings. Our competitive edge became undone when challenges were thrown. My loyalty remained 100 percent to my Green Team.

I wonder if throwing the challenges came from knowing that the teams eventually would dissolve, per last season.

Remember the Bulls back in the day won because they had to take everything to the last end of the clock as a team. I’m a fan of teams that take it to the fourth quarter as a team. No matter what, if you play like the championship Bulls or the championship Lakers under the supervision of the Bulls coach, then you’ll have trust as a unit. That’s what makes it really complex. I think it’s irrelevant to worry about last season. The game’s played just like the court and the goal’s gonna be different every time.

What do you think of Buddha, though? Are you resentful?

I honestly don’t know that dude. It’s as simple as that."

READ HIS FULL INTERVIEW HERE!

Lil' Hood's Interview

"When did you get the sense that you weren’t connecting with him?

I had a bit of an inkling after that date.

When he said you were sure of yourself in the limo?

After elimination and Caviar had gone home. He and Danger were all over each other that night. She was with him the entire night and all the girls felt insecure about that. I started to realize that I just wasn’t the girl that he was looking for.

At the bar, though, it seemed like you were really pushing up on him.

Ray picked me up. There’s no way in hell I would have been able to get on him like that without his help. He was bouncing me up and down and then he said, 'You have a little fan club going on down there, we can’t have any of that. We gotta stop it.'"

READ HER FULL INTERVIEW HERE!

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POST SHOW INTERVIEW: Stilts [For the Love of Ray J]

On a very dramatic and interesting episode of For the Love of Ray J this past Monday, Ray J decided to get rid of Stilts, for the simple reason that she was married. Stilts had won the challenge and a solo date, but the fact that her divorce was not yet finalized got her kicked out of the house. In her interview she talks about her modeling career and her time with Ray and the rest of the girls. Check out a piece of the interview below!

"Do you respect Ray?

Oh yeah. I love him as a person. I have total respect for him. He’s who he is, and I respect everything that he does. He’s a lot like me. No matter what he’s doing, even if it’s something the public might not agree with, he owns it. I give him respect for being a stand-up person in general.

What outcome did you expect from the exposure you sought by appearing on this show?

I’ve been a mainstream model for a long time. I’m 6-feet tall, so I do the runway, I’ve done music videos, I’ve been in magazines and all that. I’m married to a popular adult-film director, I have a child and I took some time off. The show was basically my way of bringing Sharee English back, but now I’m Stilts. Even just from the three weeks I was on the show, the response has been amazing. I’ve booked several jobs, I’m going to Jamaica next week for Black Men Magazine, I’m hosting parties. So this show put me back out there in the public eye because I did disappear for a while.

Any resentment for Cocktail since she schemed to get you off the show, or anyone else, for that matter?

I think Cocktail more wanted Caviar out of there first. I didn’t have a problem with any of the girls besides Danger. Well, I didn’t really have a problem with her, she was just a weird type of female and I couldn’t really get her. Everyone else in the house I could read. Cocktail, I knew from the beginning she was sneaky and it’s a game. She had to do what she could do to eliminate someone. I don’t have hard feelings toward anyone. Everyone plays their game different."

READ HER FULL INTERVIEW HERE!

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For the Love of Ray J: Danger is Pregnant,
Possibly with Ray J's Child!

This week a lot of talk has been surrounding For the Love of Ray J's contestant Danger, and her newly announced pregnancy. Several sources, including The National Enquirer, and Ms. Danger herself, are now claiming the baby's father is Ray J! Now Vh1 is denying her claiming, saying it is very untrue. Do you think the baby is really his or she is going after his money? Check below for a quote she said to the newspaper, and make your opinion her!

"There is no way the baby can be anyone’s but Ray J’s. I was locked in a mansion with him and 13 girls from October until the end of December. Toward the end of the first week of filming, we made love for the first time - and we slept together every night after that! I didn’t want to fall for Ray J, but he was so charming it became impossible not to. I was in love with him, and as strange as it might sound, I think he loved me."

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Meet the Girls of For the Love of Ray J!

On February 2nd at 10:30 p.m., after the premiere of I Love Money 2 get ready for 14 girls all vying to win the heart of r&b singer Ray J in the newest Vh1 show For the Love of Ray J! Below check out pictures of the contestants all hoping to be the next Mrs. Norwood. so far [from the looks], Caviar and Feisty look like they will be my favorites. Enjoy the pictures!

Atomic Bomb, Cashmere, Caviar

Chardonnay, Cocktail, Danger

Feisty, Genuine, Hot Cocoa

Lil' Hood, Naturalle, Stacks

Stilts, Unique

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