im thinking about bringing this blog back. prove to me i should and i will. but we will be changing our formats and deleting all our posts to start fresh.
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"It’s funny that you came off as one of the most sensitive guys on the show, yet unlike so many of the others, you didn’t really cry after you were eliminated.Yeah, I wasn’t crying in the bathroom either, they edit that stuff. But yeah, I was just happy for Daisy, and I respect her decision. Like I said before: you can’t help the way you feel inside, and if you’re honest, people shouldn’t judge you. I just want the best for her. I just want her to be happy.Was there any sense of disappointment at all?Rejection hurt. It sucked. No one wants to be rejected, you know? There’s all these guys, and I’m like, the fifth best guy? It sucked like being in the house and liking her and she’s showing attention to everybody else. It feels like a waste of time. I would never do that in real life.What do you think about your reputation as a brown-noser in the house?I come off like that because somebody will say something negative to me, and I’m just gonna come back with something positive. Because you have this aura, and when you’re negative, bad stuff just feeds back and forth and it’s bad. Negativity is bad, and nothing good can come out of it."
"What was it about Ki Ki that endeared her to you, when many of the other girls had problems with her?
Yes, she had that argument the first day, but that one argument, they drew out and made it seem like she had the whole time she was there. In actuality, she uplifted so many people. She helped Bubbles. After we got through that one altercation, they had a conversation. I made them have a conversation because we were Real Chance of Love girls. Regardless of whether we’re on this show with everybody and we’re all trying to mesh and be better people, we know each other from a previous show, so why not show each other that love? So, they got together, they spoke, and it was a magical thing. She also helped K.O. The conversation that K.O. and I had outside on the sixth episode, when K.O. was telling me about somebody pulling off her belt, Ki Ki was sitting right next to me. And Ki Ki was giving her words of advice as well, but they don’t show that because at that point they show that Ki Ki was eliminated. Ki Ki has a very powerful way of helping people. Sometimes, her mouth can get her in trouble. But that’s with all of us. So I just felt like she needed a second chance.Was it ultimately because everybody was so mad about the fact that she might be brought back that you decided not to bring her back?Oh no. My decisions come from my heart. I don’t let others dictate what I do. I’m a leader, I’m not a follower in any way, shape or form. Watching the show from my end, it makes it seem like everyone was a follower. Everyone was so selfish, and had a lack of compassion, that they weren’t willing to open their hearts and let anyone come in. And at that point I felt like Ricki [Lake] should have sent someone else home. Even if she sent me home the next episode, I feel like she should have sent someone home because no one had learned the lesson.So then what was it ultimately that made you decide not to bring Ki Ki back?After talking with her, I really thought about it. With her not being there, I couldn’t say whether she was at home doing the same things she was doing before or if she had changed. I couldn’t make that distinction, so it was not fair for me to allow her to come back. If you’re expelled, you’re expelled."
"Were you sad about not being in the running for Daisy’s heart anymore? Did it take any kind of emotional toll?I was. I was sad, knowing the fact that I couldn’t, you know, get any closer. And uh, you know, come closer to the runnings.What about the guys? Did you bond with any of them?I made some cool friends on the show, and I hope they feel the same way about me. I’m actually kind of still blurry from 12 Pack spraying me in the eyes with that cologne. You get a bunch of alpha males in that one household with that one hot chick, there’s gonna be some fucking drama, hands down. And you know, as it’s process of elimination, and it get smaller and smaller, it starts getting negative and drama starts to happen.In the show-and-tell episode when you gave Daisy something and it was never revealed what you gave her? What was that?Um, it was actually a banana that vibrated. If there was anyone that could pull that off, it was Fox, hands down. I mean if someone else tried it, they would have been fucking kicked out. For sure."
"I was surprised to find out via an extra that you are missing your front teeth.A lot of people think that’s funny. I have had them gone for two or three years. A lot of people think it happened in one of my MMA fights, but it actually happened in a street fight. There were seven or eight other guys against me and a best friend, and one had gotten a hold of a pipe or something, and went to swinging and hit me across the mouth with it. And hell, it never hurt me. It just messed one of them up, but then later on, after fighting and shit like that, it broke again, and they just started cracking off. So I just had them pulled, man, I was like, “Fuck it. This is kind of my calling. Ain’t no need in getting them fixed.” It’s very entertaining. The kids love it.It will provide fun for years to come, too. Are you still MMA fighting?Yes, I’m full time. Right now I’m back at home, you know, just hanging out. I was here for Father’s Day and stuff. I do what real people do. I work hard. I’m out here at a job site right now with a friend of mine who does construction. I’ve been out here for two weeks, sweating my ass off, building houses and putting up decking and roofing and all that stuff. And that’s just something I like to do. That’s just me. That’s a part of me that I keep on doing. Like I said, I’m just a good old country boy, man. Like to do a bit of different things.Speaking of doing different things, I heard that you and Marcia [of Rock of Love Bus and Charm School] are dating. Is that true?Yeah."
"YOUR:Name.Age.Location of where you live.Phone number.Email address.A recent photo.A brief bio telling us who you are and why you would be the perfect girl for The Entertainer."
"So most of you have seen photos floating around with me and a guy, who is obviously not Ray. Some of you have been asking questions about who I am dating, is it Ray? Or this person or that person and I want to clear some things up.When I was on the show, I truly fell for Ray. I invested my time, effort, and emotions into him and wanted things to work. But the reality of reality television is that it doesn’t always work. Ray and I are no longer together. We have not been together for awhile now but we have remained friends and when we hang out we have a great time. I miss him very much and respect what decisions he has made. He is a really cool person and someone I feel connected with for sure but aside from that, I can’t say.As for the tour we just did and ‘acting’ like we were together, it comes with the show. What people saw of us on tour was real. When we are together we have a cool chemistry. We have fun and enjoy each others company. But at the end of the day I wasn’t the right person for Ray and although it hurt me, at least he was honest about the situation before it went any further. I do want to end this on a positive note, I am happy. I am having fun, living life and doing me. I have a lot of projects coming up and you will see a lot more of me for sure."
"Just like any other relationship we took it day by day. We would hang out, have fun, laugh, share stories, and watch tv. Over time as we got to know each other more and more he would tell me things and often times they would hurt my feelings. I guess the brutal truth about him not being exclusive with me and still ‘hooking up’ with girls made me realize that it wasn’t going to work. I hate feeling like I failed and let’s be real no woman likes to quit a relationship so I tried to stick it out. I wanted to be his only one not just his number one.After awhile Ray eventually realized that I was truly genuine and sat me down to tell me that we were not going to work out. Then the season 2 bomb was dropped on me. What makes me mad is that I asked him if there was going to be a season 2 and he lied to my face. He sweet talked me both times I asked. Aside from that, the breaking point was when we went on tour. He didn’t come back to the room at night and I heard the whispers about him being in other rooms with girls. It made me mad because he knew he could be honest with me but he chose not to be. At this point, I emotionally checked out."
"How do you feel about being treated the way that you were by the girls on this show?I think it spilled over from [Rock of Love Bus]. I think because of the editing, the other girls had seen only what Vh1 showed me as from the first show, so they already had their opinions of me. I really liked So Hood and Ki Ki. I thought Bubbles was a really nice girl. Like me, she’s a nice person and she gets picked on. I think it’s funny that because I was nice and talkative, the other girls wanted to say that I was fake. That doesn’t make sense to me at all. I’m fake because I try too hard to be nice? I’m nice until you push me too far. But don’t get it twisted: I can fight, but I only fight the right way. If Beverly or Farrah or anyone else wants to fight me, let’s take it to the ring. Seriously. We’ll get a ref and we’ll go at it.Did it break you down at all?The bathroom thing did a little. At first, it was funny. They were throwing hot dogs underneath the door and saying fat jokes. I was taking the hot dogs and throwing them at the cameramen outside the window. But then 30 minutes go by. I sat down on the floor and stretched and meditated. I was starting to get thirsty. When you turned on the sink at that house, brown water would come out for a minute before it became clear, so I was afraid to drink the water. After an hour, I started to get a little claustrophobic, a little freaked out. It just wasn’t funny to me anymore. The first thing I saw was a fire extinguisher. I’m trained to look for things in a room that you can use to defend yourself or get out of a situation with. So I took the extinguisher and I started breaking down the door. By the time I was about to break down the door, they say K.O came and unlocked it. I was spraying the thing and it was going everywhere. It’s kind of silly once you see it on TV. I took it with me to bed because I was like, “If this bitch starts with me, I’m going to spray her right in the face with it.”That was hilarious because it was like, how many more things can Brittaney keep in her bed? Socks, food, fire extinguishers...I was just sick of people coming up to me. Before we even got there, Beverly tried to choke me. She grabbed my hair, too. And here’s the thing about that: yeah, I cried a little bit because she yanked some of my hair out. I’m not a pussy. If you knew what I’ve gone through with my hair, you’d understand."
"I thought it was strange that in the case that Daisy was kind of condescending to you about stripping, as a former stripper herself.I don’t understand because, here’s my view: Do you go to work to make no money? Because when I go to the strip club, I go to make money. I don’t understand what the problem is. You say it’s all about the money, well it is all about the money. When you go in and clock in and do whatever you gotta do at your job, you don’t expect to do it for free. Just like when I’m entertaining I don’t expect to do it for free.Do you go totally nude when you strip?No, no I don’t go totally nude. But I have been in Playgirl.When was that?2008. I was actually supposed to be on the cover and I think the magazine actually went bankrupt, but it was online. I don’t know if I still am, but hopefully not. But if I am, who cares? I have a big hog and I got a piercing, that’s what matters."
"4.2 million viewers tuned in to see Ray J pick his leading lady on the For the Love of Ray J finale episode. Cocktail was crowned the winner and all seemed great for the happy couple. We next saw them on the reunion episode where both let viewers know they were excited to see how their relationship would progress! Ray J thought he had found “the one” but unfortunately, things didn’t work out – and he’s now single again.As viewers saw last season, dating a hip-hip star is a full-time job which includes red carpet events, the paparazzi and handling all the crazy fans. For Ray J, dating has never been an issue, it’s finding the perfect woman that can be harder than you think, especially when you’re a celebrity. Since things didn’t exactly work out with his last girlfriend, Ray J is back to give love a second chance. As r&b’s most eligible bachelor, Ray J is determined to find a woman he can settle down with.Vh1 is looking for women with confidence, personality and class that can handle the pressure of being with a superstar and turn Ray J into a one-woman man. Beginning today, viewers and fans will have the opportunity to submit themselves for consideration on For the Love of Ray J 2. Online users can log onto Vh1’s For the Love of Ray J 2 casting site at RayJCasting.com."